Tim

 I felt like Tim's mom treated him like a baby.  I wanted to treat Tim like an adult which he was (he was 59 years old).   An example of this was I didn't like being told what to do and asked to do stuff by stuff by my adult "son".  I felt like Tim treated me like a servant which is scary because he calls me his only friend.  I felt like friends hanged out together doing stuff, not being bossed around.